Tokyo stands up to haters and body shaming of SSBBW/BBW women

Tokyo really stood her grounds after that weak ass situation with Spice over a man. I'm glad Tokyo didn't back down to the body shamming coming from Spice. Weak as women are quick to throw shade at a woman because of her body frame or weight. Spice doesn't even like her own body and that is why she has a fake plastic man made body. Fake ass that looks unbalanced. Much love to Tokyo for representing for the Sexy Fat girls. Spice really thought she could disrespect and embarrass Tokyo on TV. Spice wish she looked half as good as Tokyo. Girl Bye!

Smoothering and Squashing Fetish for SSBBW and BBW Lovers

I often get calls from SSBBW lovers that have a weakness for Large women smothering and crushing them with our heavy bodies. They love the feeling of being overpowered by our weight. Especially smaller men. They love a huge woman sitting on their face until they are close to passing out. They love to burry their face in huge legs and ass until their face is covered. Even men that don't normally date larger women still like to watch smothering porn and talk to PSO girls about their fetish. This falls under BDSM were a regular guy becomes a submissive and indulges in being dominated by a SSBBW.

SuperSized BBW Pearshaped shopping Problems

Being a pearshapped BBW can have it's moments of temporary frustrations while shopping for clothing. A lot of plus size clothing stores cater to women that are shorter than me that have more stomach than hip and ass. I usually have to buy stretch clothing or stretchy dresses because a lot of pants for larger women were not made for Pears. I usually shop online and hope the pants or skirts are a good fit when I put them on. I really need to get a seamstress that can make clothing specifically for me. Some of the clothing I see at plus size stores are for church events or formal clothing for a wedding. High end designers don't usually make women's clothing over a size 10-12. They would really rack up a lot of money if they made clothing for SSBBW women. Oh, well. The clothing market still has a huge void. One of these high end designers would make a killing if they started making clothing for the plus size community.

SSBBW and BBW women are not desperate for Love or Attention

I get so tired of men assuming that SSBBW and BBW women lack self esteem because we don't fit the media's standard of beauty. We have our own standard of beauty. I hate when I meet a guy and I don't text him back to back or don't invite him over and he assume that there are some self esteem issues. No, I'm not interested in you and your personality sucks balls so I feel no need to continue to text you. I've had guys assume that they could sleep with a fat girl after the club because she's a big girl. Who brainwashed these desperate thirsty men? Who is putting this bullshit lie in their head? Large women are in demand and demand the same respect as any other woman. And even if a woman sleeps with you after the club or within the first week don't assume she's some big fattie with no self worth and gave you the pussy because she needs attention. Maybe she just wanted sex and wanted to have a good time. You men really need to stop judging and making assumptions about us SSBBW and BBW women. You are not us and you don't live in our heads to make all these false assumptions.

Sex Workers finding love and a spouse

I sometimes wonder how relationships work out with other women in the adult industry. People can be very intimidated by sex workers. Whether you do Porn, strip, web cam, phone sex, you deserve a spouse and someone that loves you regardless. At the end of the day, everybody has feelings, a heart and a soul that needs to be nurtured. I rarely hear Porn stars talk about their husbands or bf in interviews or on social media. I understand keeping things discrete, but I do wonder if they have a significant other. Many are judged because of stereotypes and misconceptions that come along with this industry. People guess and assume a lot about sex workers. Not just porn stars and strippers, but web cam girls and adult models that never make contact with the men they entertain. I've watched a few documentaries online about adult models and they had spouses that were very supportive.

Summer Time for The Sexy Fatgirls

Big girl season is all year round. I don't know who started that bullshit that big girl season is in the winter when men want to be up under a SSBBW/BBW. Big girls win all year long, including summer. Big girls will be at the pools, lakes, beaches, and water parks in sexy swim suits even two pieces. Big girls are already hot so we will be dressing less in the summer. Don't hate on the Sexy Big girls. Grab your man when you see a big girl out at the club or laying poolside. I know some will throw shade, but that's fine. Sexy voluptuous women are winning.

More Fat girl Clubs

We need more BBW clubs. Not just because I'm a plus size woman, but because BBW night clubs are fun for everybody. I've been to several clubs and bars this year and the BBW clubs were so fun. Even the smaller women that were partying said they had the most BBW night clubs. BBW night clubs are usually filled with people of every nationality and age. People come out and dance and have a good time without feeling self conscious or nervous. The guys can dance and have fun without feeling like people are judging them for being with a Larger woman. I have thought about starting my own night club and have it weekly, with strippers. Men and women strippers or some fetish shows with some BDSM. Wishful thinking.