Happy New Years!!

Happy New years to all my readers and callers and friends. I hope 2019 brings everybody happiness and peace of mind. The New Year is usually a time that everyone set goals, start all over, or just feel good that they made it to another year. My goal is to work out more, make more money, and blog more. I hope you all have a beautiful time where ever you are. Whether you are with family, friends, or out at the club popping bottles of champagne. Enjoy your New Year.

Feedee Fetish for SSBBW and BBW women

I recently had a call on niteflirt with a guy that was into feeding women to gain weight. We spoke about his desire to over feed large women. He like feeding them all of the fatty and sugary foods they love. Everything from cheesy pizza, crispy fried hot wings, to donuts and thick slices of cake. He love watching a woman eat until she is so relaxed and ready to lay around and be lazy. He love to buy his dates large amounts of foods at restaurants just to see them eat until they are about to pop.

I've always been curious about this fetish because I remember reading about it in the early 2000's in different message board forums. Some men just like their women large so they feed them. Some want to feed their spouse until they become immobile. They want to feed their spouse so much over the course of time until they are bedridden. This is something that I'm still learning about because everyone has their own reasons for practicing this fetish. It can be arousing for the feeder and the feedee. Some guys just like to sit back and watch a woman eat all of her favorite foods, but the goal is not for them to gain wait. The Guy is just aroused by watching a woman eat.

I've always had mixed feelings about someone purposely eating so that they become immobile. I guess I've been watching too much of the show (My 600 pound life). I've watched women complain about pain in their legs, or constant back problems while laying in a bed for most of their adult life. This really makes me curious when I see people take the Feeder Fetish very serious. Some people turn it into a lifestyle and rely on the spouse to wash them, cook for them, and put their clothes on. I've read about this being a part of BDSM lifestyle since the feedee can no longer do for herself.

Femdom and Mistress Bandwagon

There are many women that are jumping on the Financial Domination Bandwagon or trend I shall say. Some women are really living the Domination lifestyle and have the bank account along with the Pay Pigs on a Leash to back it up. Some women have tried to test the waters as a Mistress only to fall flat on their face and end up broke or even in debt. Just because you see women holding a stash of money, or showing off a new Gucci bag with a pair of red bottom heels doesn't mean they are really living the glamorous life. To each it's own, but stay in your lane and don't try to ride every trend because you think you will profit. I started off as a vanilla girl, however, many of the men that I spoke with and conversed with online knew that I was not submissive or the sweet girlfriend type. Guys would tell me that they wanted to be dominated or they wanted to worship me. I never really had to go out of my way to seek these guys. My personality and demeanor brought these guys to me. I say this, because there are so many women online claiming to be sugar babies or cash money princesses, but the men can read through a lot of the fakeness and acting. If you are a regular vanilla girl, it's okay. Vanilla sex is needed and there is a huge group of men that love vanilla girls and slut type girls. Sluts get paid big time. Porn started out as mostly vanilla sex and girls did well.

Tokyo stands up to haters and body shaming of SSBBW/BBW women

Tokyo really stood her grounds after that weak ass situation with Spice over a man. I'm glad Tokyo didn't back down to the body shamming coming from Spice. Weak as women are quick to throw shade at a woman because of her body frame or weight. Spice doesn't even like her own body and that is why she has a fake plastic man made body. Fake ass that looks unbalanced. Much love to Tokyo for representing for the Sexy Fat girls. Spice really thought she could disrespect and embarrass Tokyo on TV. Spice wish she looked half as good as Tokyo. Girl Bye!

SuperSized BBW Pearshaped shopping Problems

Being a pearshapped BBW can have it's moments of temporary frustrations while shopping for clothing. A lot of plus size clothing stores cater to women that are shorter than me that have more stomach than hip and ass. I usually have to buy stretch clothing or stretchy dresses because a lot of pants for larger women were not made for Pears. I usually shop online and hope the pants or skirts are a good fit when I put them on. I really need to get a seamstress that can make clothing specifically for me. Some of the clothing I see at plus size stores are for church events or formal clothing for a wedding. High end designers don't usually make women's clothing over a size 10-12. They would really rack up a lot of money if they made clothing for SSBBW women. Oh, well. The clothing market still has a huge void. One of these high end designers would make a killing if they started making clothing for the plus size community.

Summer Time for The Sexy Fatgirls

Big girl season is all year round. I don't know who started that bullshit that big girl season is in the winter when men want to be up under a SSBBW/BBW. Big girls win all year long, including summer. Big girls will be at the pools, lakes, beaches, and water parks in sexy swim suits even two pieces. Big girls are already hot so we will be dressing less in the summer. Don't hate on the Sexy Big girls. Grab your man when you see a big girl out at the club or laying poolside. I know some will throw shade, but that's fine. Sexy voluptuous women are winning.

More Fat girl Clubs

We need more BBW clubs. Not just because I'm a plus size woman, but because BBW night clubs are fun for everybody. I've been to several clubs and bars this year and the BBW clubs were so fun. Even the smaller women that were partying said they had the most BBW night clubs. BBW night clubs are usually filled with people of every nationality and age. People come out and dance and have a good time without feeling self conscious or nervous. The guys can dance and have fun without feeling like people are judging them for being with a Larger woman. I have thought about starting my own night club and have it weekly, with strippers. Men and women strippers or some fetish shows with some BDSM. Wishful thinking.

Men refuse to be turned down

I understand that being a larger woman I will naturally attract attention. Some good and some not so good. Attention from men and women, young, old and everything else in between. Some men live in a fucked façade and think that every woman is suppose to give them the time of day and entertain every compliment. I don't have to stop and flirt with every man that approach me. I've had the misfortune of dealing with men that get offended if you don't smile at them. Men need to stop being so damn sensitive and deal with the rejection. If you can't deal with rejection, stop approaching women in public and stick to online dating. If a woman is a saying that she is not interested or if she is already spoken for (in a relationship), then keep it moving. I get so tired of men, grown ass men whimpering everything they are turned down. Grow up and take the lose. Nobody is obligated to give you their phone number or get in a deep conversation with you just because you give a few compliments and do some smiling and flirting.