Sex Addicts Part 1

I have spoken to several men with sexual addictions over the years. This is more than a sexual fetish like a latex fetish or a foot fetish. Just like a drug addiction or a gambling addiction these men need to constantly have sex, watch porn or call for phone sex and web cam shows. There is a fine line between an addiction and just being promiscuous. Even health professionals do not know if sexual addiction should be diagnosed as such or, rather, if the condition is better defined as a compulsive behavior. Only the actual person with the addiction can determine if it is totally out of their control. Some people especially men, crave variety. According to "www.projectknow.com" Porn is not sex, however, and people who are so-called porn addicts should not also be labeled with a sex addiction unless there is solid evidence to the contrary. People often get the diagnosis confused. That is why so many men call for phone sex because they don't want to take the risk of going out and finding a hooker or hanging out in adult bookstores to get laid. A man with a sexual addiction will spend a lot of time surfing for porn, ranging from Pay Per View sites, to Webcam erotic clips to satisfy their sexual cravings. If you do have a sexual addiction that is out of your control, it would be more logical to watch porn and talk to girls. This can be pricey, but it's more safer than cruising a dark alley for prostitutes or looking someone up online that could be an undercover.

Cuckolding Fetish

So many men have a sexual fetish for their wife or gf to be fucked by another man or multiple men. I've spoken to several men with this fantasy or some that have lived the lifestyle. This is becoming a popular trend in porn and many guys call phone sex lines or web cam sites. Why? Can anyone explain what is so erotic about another man pounding your wife or gf. I'm curious to know. I mostly get non black men that are into this fetish, although I have spoken to some black men that are into the fetish. Not many. I never really get a chance to ask my callers about how they became interested or aroused by the whole cuckolding fetish. I've wondered many times about it, but my callers are usually so aroused and caught up in the fantasy that I don't bother to ask. I guess it's the feeling of being humiliated that turns a man on, or the embarrassment of a man with a bigger cock fucking your wife.

Men refuse to be turned down

I understand that being a larger woman I will naturally attract attention. Some good and some not so good. Attention from men and women, young, old and everything else in between. Some men live in a fucked façade and think that every woman is suppose to give them the time of day and entertain every compliment. I don't have to stop and flirt with every man that approach me. I've had the misfortune of dealing with men that get offended if you don't smile at them. Men need to stop being so damn sensitive and deal with the rejection. If you can't deal with rejection, stop approaching women in public and stick to online dating. If a woman is a saying that she is not interested or if she is already spoken for (in a relationship), then keep it moving. I get so tired of men, grown ass men whimpering everything they are turned down. Grow up and take the lose. Nobody is obligated to give you their phone number or get in a deep conversation with you just because you give a few compliments and do some smiling and flirting.

Men love Phonesex and WebCam Models

Men love to be aroused in various ways. The easiest way to achieve this is porn usually. Sometimes porn is not enough when a man wants to be sexually stimulated. A man need to interact with someone that responds to his needs. Watching porn is great, but the woman in the porn will not respond to you obviously. The best way to interact with a woman in a discrete way is through phone sex or webcam. You are able to explain your wants, needs and fetishes. There are several sites that cater to men that have a unique fetish. Even if he is married or has a gf, he may still want to go outside of the relationship to seek additional sexual gratification. That is where phone sex and web cam girls come in. Many men spend large amounts of money on phone sex sites. I see no problem with this, because if you go out and get a girl at a night club or a bar, you will have to buy drinks, eventually pay for dates, food, trips, gas money, hotel rooms, vacations in the long run. Men that call phone sex sites find it easier to stay home and reach their orgasm at home with a random woman that they've chosen on a phone sex or webcam site.

Sexual Fetish Phonesex

Everybody has a fetish. Some fetishes are very common like a foot fetish. Some are very unique like giantess fetish, smoking fetish, feeding fetish, or financial domination. There are some men that like to be shrunken and dominated by a huge giant goddess. I've done several calls with men that want me to shrink them down to an inch and hide them in my purse or my pocket. This fantasy brings on arousal and sexual feelings. Sometimes I'm amazed and fascinated by the fetishes that some people have. I've heard just about every sexual fetish under the sun. Some don't involve any sexual contact. For example, some men are turned on by a woman smoking a cigarette or cigar. The smoke, the inhaling and exhaling as well as the smell of the smoke can send a man into a sexual trance. Another one is financial domination. I've spoken to many men that got satisfaction from being financially used and abused. Whether it was sending multiple tributes or calling my financial domination line just to be ignored. People are very unique with how they reach sexual satisfaction. There is no right or wrong way to get sexually excited.

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Fake PayPigs with empty pockets

I understand that a lot of men that the fantasy of being used as a Sugar Daddy. That's all fine, but don't send messages claiming that you want to spoil me or any other woman when you know that you lack the funds. I know that there are a lot of fake pay pigs and Wanna Be Human ATM's that are not really able to spoil a Goddess. For some of the new women out here, they don't know that a large percentage of these men are mostly talk when it comes to being financially dominated. It's more of a fantasy instead of a lifestyle. Repeatedly telling a woman that you want to pay all of her bills or buy everything off of her amazon wish list doesn't make you a real pay pig. You are just a typical man on a budget. I say this because a lot of women think they can get on social media and get rich quick off of these so-called Pay Pigs and Sugar Daddies. Ladies, don't be so quick to quit your day job if you think there are millions of men horny with a credit card ready to spoil you. A lot are really just bullshitters and time wasters. I've had some that have spend thousands in just a few hours and some that were on a tight budget and wanted to waste time.