Married Men with Slim wives Lusting for BBW and SSBBW Women

I constantly get calls and messages from men that are obsessed with large women, but married average skinny women with average shapes. I get so many men saying they feel trapped because they prefer large women. So many got sucked into the image of a certain type of woman. We can blame the media, society or our peers because we do allow people to influence who we date or marry. I recall a guy I met when I was younger and he was into me. Called me all the time, spoiled me and we always had a good time. Later, down the line he mentioned that his friends questioned him for being with a fat girl. He was heavily influenced by what was said by his friends. He mentioned it over and over until I felt like he was a nice guy, but too weak. He was too weak of a man because he felt embarrassed for liking a fat girl. He missed out, but that is just an example. Many women have shared stories with me about how a man was influenced by outsiders and didn't want to be seen with a BBW/SSBBW. So anyways, I have spoken to men over the years that feel like they married the wrong woman or they thought having a skinny woman was the same as having a trophy woman. I talk to guys that say their sex life is boring because they are with a woman that they are not physically attracted to. Some of the women they complain about have no boobs, or their ass is not big like most guys like. Sometimes it's funny, but sometimes I feel some kind of way because many people pick their spouse based on what they think society will accept.

Men That Date SSBBW/BBW women must be Extremely confident

Even in the year 2018 men still get judged for dating Larger women. The media has brainwashed women and men about what is the standard of beauty. The media sets the trends and set the standards of beauty which can leave men confused if they are not sure of themselves and confident. TV and media will have you believe that beauty only comes in a small frame or a frame that has been nipped and tucked leaving them with an unrealistic frame. This is why it is important for men to not allow themselves to be brainwashed with what the media has been shoving down our throats for years. Women that are artificial looking with the help of plastic surgeons are seen as trophy girls for men. Making men think that their status depends on having a woman that is fake and artificial looking. Look at some of the most popular celebs. They don't even wanna be themselves. They are relying on doctors to enhance things while giving the public a false look. I advise men all the time, to never rely on the media to set the standards on what a real woman is suppose to look like. Real women come in all sizes and shapes. A man that dates Large women must be extremely confident and sure of himself to publicly date a large woman. People can be very judgmental against SSBBW/BBW women and will shame men for loving Larger women.

Feedee Fetish for SSBBW and BBW women

I recently had a call on niteflirt with a guy that was into feeding women to gain weight. We spoke about his desire to over feed large women. He like feeding them all of the fatty and sugary foods they love. Everything from cheesy pizza, crispy fried hot wings, to donuts and thick slices of cake. He love watching a woman eat until she is so relaxed and ready to lay around and be lazy. He love to buy his dates large amounts of foods at restaurants just to see them eat until they are about to pop.

I've always been curious about this fetish because I remember reading about it in the early 2000's in different message board forums. Some men just like their women large so they feed them. Some want to feed their spouse until they become immobile. They want to feed their spouse so much over the course of time until they are bedridden. This is something that I'm still learning about because everyone has their own reasons for practicing this fetish. It can be arousing for the feeder and the feedee. Some guys just like to sit back and watch a woman eat all of her favorite foods, but the goal is not for them to gain wait. The Guy is just aroused by watching a woman eat.

I've always had mixed feelings about someone purposely eating so that they become immobile. I guess I've been watching too much of the show (My 600 pound life). I've watched women complain about pain in their legs, or constant back problems while laying in a bed for most of their adult life. This really makes me curious when I see people take the Feeder Fetish very serious. Some people turn it into a lifestyle and rely on the spouse to wash them, cook for them, and put their clothes on. I've read about this being a part of BDSM lifestyle since the feedee can no longer do for herself.

Happy at my highest weight as a SSBBW/BBW

I've never felt bad about being a larger SSBBW. As the weight came on, my only concern was my health and fitting into clothes. Other than that, I've never been intimidated or insecure around smaller women. Things like that never bothered me, I've always had fatgirl swag. The media's standard of beauty as far a size never fazed me. I was never ashamed or uncomfortable about my size. I was made like this for a reason. I've known women that went through life trying to lose weight with no results. Some of them lead depressed lives and struggle with their self esteem and self worth. My weight was never a struggle. Even when someone is starring at me or make a comment in public, I laugh it off because they are probably just jealous and insecure that a Large SSBBW look 10 times better than them.