Fantasies in the closet

I just had a call with a new caller. A black guy in college. He has a girlfriend and he plans to marry her soon. He told me that he's been having fantasies of sucking another man's dick. He got the idea from watching online porn. He asked me if it was natural for a man to fantasize about being with another man. I told him it's very natural to have fetishes and secret desires. We all have desires that are waiting to be fullfilled. It depends on how you handle your feelings and how you take action for these hidden desires. Some watch porn or look at fetish pictures to fill that void in their mind. Sometimes porn and pictures can only get you so far. Your brain and your sexual organ is programmed and designed to want more. If it's something that has to be fullfilled it will keep bothering you and making you want to explore until your at the edge of the ledge. Not meaning suicide. NO. Meaning you will eventually want to test the waters and act out those hidden fantasies or fetishes. It could be domination, cuckolding, being with a SSBBW or sleeping with someone of the same sex. Phone sex is a great way to live out those fantasies in a discrete way without being judge. If phone sex is not enough, you will eventually want to go all the way and satisfy that lust.

Back to my caller. He said that he's been masturbating while thinking about another man's dick in his mouth. He doesn't want to be dominated or forced to do anything. He kept telling me that he's not gay or bi. I guess bi curious would be the word for him. We spoke for about 30 minutes, then he called right back saying he need to be with a man soon and that it's making him nervous. I gave him the best advice I could give. He's going to call me back and let me know how he's doing soon. I'll post the details. I told him I wanted to write about him in my blog because their are other men that are having the same issues. I really shouldn't call it an issue or a fetish. It's just a part of being human.