Big Girls don't have time for the games

I hate when a guy only wanna get involved with a SSBBW because he has a sexual fetish. Don't pretend you are interested if you only up to no good trying to use a woman. Be an adult and stop with the kiddy behavior. That's why we have web cam sites, BBW porn, online sites for men that have a fetish for fat women. There are also sex workers that cater to these fetishes. We know that some men see us as a sexual fetish and only want to have fun. Some women are open to it which is cool however, I can't stand a man that will lie and play games just to be with a larger woman for his own fetish pleasure. I would rather a man say up front that he doesn't date large women and that he's curious about face sitting or smothering. Adult men need to be honest and act like an adult without all the tricky mind games. I've met men that will claim they only date large women, thinking that will impress me, only to find out that they've never really had an interest in large woman, only an interest in using women as a fetish. Don't trick innocent women and claim you are looking for a long term relationship with marriage in the future when in reality, you are only into large women for your own fantasies. It's okay to have a fetish and fantasies and want to fulfil but be an adult about. Women cannot stand time wasters with a fucked up agenda. Keep it 100.

Cheating in the Next room

I had a phone call late last night with a new caller. I'll call him Rick. Rick is married to a small petite woman that use to be a personal trainer and ran track in high school as well as played volleyball. She's a health food junkie that stays in the gym constantly. Rick's wife usually makes nasty comments about large women and always laugh when she sees a plus size woman in public. Little does she know, Rick is attracted to larger women but has never had the guts to tell his wife. Although his wife could be a cover model for any magazine Rick was never physically attracted to her. He married her because they were close friends and they became roommates and he felt it was the right thing to do. Deep down inside Rick always had this fantasy of his wife gaining weight and becoming a plus size woman. She already has large breast that have been mistaken as implants, but he want some large hips and a round belly to go with those breast.

So in the last month a single woman moved next door with her two female room mates and she's a SSBBW according to Rick. Rick describes her as being attractive and having a sexy voluptuous body that would make any fat admire drool. Rick's wife has already made nasty comments about the new neighbor referring to her as a fattie and overgrown. What she doesn't know or understand is that her husband is attracted to this overgrown fattie and would rather lay with her instead of his overworked out gymaholic wife. So Rick and the new large neighbor have already been flirting and winking at each other. Rick's wife would never expect that her husband is curious about the new plus size neighbor.

Deeper in the conversation Rick tells me that he wants to have an affair with the neighbor. Even though its gonna be risky, he's tired of sleeping with his slim wife. I told him to be careful and be safe. Maybe this will be payback for his wife's nasty comments. Rick is ready to take the risk and screw his neighbor behind his wife's back.

Blackmailed sissy on the Job part 2

Late last night I got a call from the blackmailed sissy. He's really under pressure because the guy in the IT department is still blackmailing him and controlling his life on the job. The black guy has my caller buying him lunch, giving him money, and blow jobs while on their lunch breaks. I thought my caller was exaggerating but he doesn't sound likes he's making these stories up. He's really nervous because the guy in IT has footage of him having phone sex while on the job as I mentioned before. The IT guy has been coming into my caller's office and sitting on his desk while my caller performs blowjobs. My caller said at first it was the most degrading thing he had ever done and he couldn't look at his wife when he went home. He said the IT guy has been making him order lunch and charge it on his visa. When the IT guy needs money he goes straight to my caller's office. My caller has given him over $600 dollars so far so that the blackmailer can buy shoes, get haircuts, and pay his cell phone bill. My caller once told him that he couldn't afford to keep dishing out money. The guy in IT said "You should have thought about that before you started dressing up and having phone sex while on the job". Then he laughed in my callers face and demanded another blow job. The caller was laughing and taunting him like a kid on a playground while my caller had his cock in his mouth. Then my caller made a shocking confession, and told me that he got turned on while he was sucking off the IT guy. He said he felt guilty because he never thought in a million years that he would be put in this position. I told him to try to find some hidden info on the IT guy so that he could blackmail him. My caller said he doesn't have any ways of finding dirt on the IT guy and that for now he's gonna have to give him what he wants until he can just pay the guy off and have him destroy the footage of him. Poor guy, I hate to say it but the IT guy was right when he said he shouldn't be having phone sex on company time. I'll keep you all updated with anything else. My caller said it was okay for me to post about him just to never reveal his name or the company he works at.

Update

Hello guys. I would like to thank all the guys that called me this weekend. I did my $1.00 weekend and also for the 4th of July. I really had fun talking to you guys and getting off with you all. Even the ones that only talk to chat about none sexual subjects. I will be logging off in a few hours so *kisses* guys. I don't blog as much as I would like because my pc is slow. *sucksteeth*. I'm working on that. Catch me on twitter @bbwvanityminaj
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I'm not a future XXX star

I've gotten a few hits on twitter of people asking me if I'd be interested in getting in the adult movie industry. NOPE!! I like to watch XXX films from time to time but I will not be in any of them. Much respect to all of the people that make adult films and expose themselves but I couldn't do it. From what I've researched, the career of porn stars is not very long, after your exposed, the adult film companies are off to find the next new face. I'm sure girls know this and their okay with it. So more power to the adult film stars that are able to make a living and provide for their families, but it's just not for me. I've had a couple of guys contact me on niteflirt and ask me if I would like to film with them and make tons of money. I'm not buying that tons of money crap, because I've spoken to a few adult stars and they are struggling in the industry. It's not like you punch a clock and get a fat paycheck every week. I'm sure their are some that are living the "Good Life" off of their porn career and that's great for them. I use to wonder why their were so many new female faces in porn but I've been seeing the same guys for over the last ten years. I guess because guys like variety and they buy the bulk of porn, so these companies want to cater to them by constantly trading old girls for new faces in order to give the guys (porn buyers)something new to keep them buying. These are my thoughts, some can disagree, but this is what I've researched and this is why I will not put myself in any adult films. xoxoxo

When a size 4 is too fat

I've been reading articles all over the net about a magazine interview that Tyra Banks recently did for a magazine. In the magazine, Tyra Banks makes a statement that she would have been too heavy to model if she tried to start now in 2012. It shows a picture of a young black model flaunting a size 0 frame. The girl looks sick, like really sick. Nothing wrong with being skinny and slim, nothing wrong with being large. What really gets to me is that most women are a size 8 or larger. This subject has been discussed for years on the net, in magazines, and on talk shows. Why do these clothing companies keep flaunting size 0-4 models when most of the female population is nowhere close to that size? It only encourages young girls that being normal is not okay. This is sad. I don't encourage anyone to strive to be a SSBBW because it doesn't work for everybody, but models flaunting size 0 bodies and Tyra saying she would be too chunky at a size 4 is ridiculous. So what, a girl that is a healthy size 8 or a size 20 is going to feel inadequate because she can't squeeze into a size 0-4. I don't even think most of these fashion designers make close that small, that just think the skinnier the model, the better they look on the runway or in the magazine. Then they use Photoshop and airbrushing to adjust breast size. Shaking my head!!!!!!!