Men refuse to be turned down

I understand that being a larger woman I will naturally attract attention. Some good and some not so good. Attention from men and women, young, old and everything else in between. Some men live in a fucked façade and think that every woman is suppose to give them the time of day and entertain every compliment. I don't have to stop and flirt with every man that approach me. I've had the misfortune of dealing with men that get offended if you don't smile at them. Men need to stop being so damn sensitive and deal with the rejection. If you can't deal with rejection, stop approaching women in public and stick to online dating. If a woman is a saying that she is not interested or if she is already spoken for (in a relationship), then keep it moving. I get so tired of men, grown ass men whimpering everything they are turned down. Grow up and take the lose. Nobody is obligated to give you their phone number or get in a deep conversation with you just because you give a few compliments and do some smiling and flirting.

Men love Phonesex and WebCam Models

Men love to be aroused in various ways. The easiest way to achieve this is porn usually. Sometimes porn is not enough when a man wants to be sexually stimulated. A man need to interact with someone that responds to his needs. Watching porn is great, but the woman in the porn will not respond to you obviously. The best way to interact with a woman in a discrete way is through phone sex or webcam. You are able to explain your wants, needs and fetishes. There are several sites that cater to men that have a unique fetish. Even if he is married or has a gf, he may still want to go outside of the relationship to seek additional sexual gratification. That is where phone sex and web cam girls come in. Many men spend large amounts of money on phone sex sites. I see no problem with this, because if you go out and get a girl at a night club or a bar, you will have to buy drinks, eventually pay for dates, food, trips, gas money, hotel rooms, vacations in the long run. Men that call phone sex sites find it easier to stay home and reach their orgasm at home with a random woman that they've chosen on a phone sex or webcam site.

Sexual Fetish Phonesex

Everybody has a fetish. Some fetishes are very common like a foot fetish. Some are very unique like giantess fetish, smoking fetish, feeding fetish, or financial domination. There are some men that like to be shrunken and dominated by a huge giant goddess. I've done several calls with men that want me to shrink them down to an inch and hide them in my purse or my pocket. This fantasy brings on arousal and sexual feelings. Sometimes I'm amazed and fascinated by the fetishes that some people have. I've heard just about every sexual fetish under the sun. Some don't involve any sexual contact. For example, some men are turned on by a woman smoking a cigarette or cigar. The smoke, the inhaling and exhaling as well as the smell of the smoke can send a man into a sexual trance. Another one is financial domination. I've spoken to many men that got satisfaction from being financially used and abused. Whether it was sending multiple tributes or calling my financial domination line just to be ignored. People are very unique with how they reach sexual satisfaction. There is no right or wrong way to get sexually excited.

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Fake PayPigs with empty pockets

I understand that a lot of men that the fantasy of being used as a Sugar Daddy. That's all fine, but don't send messages claiming that you want to spoil me or any other woman when you know that you lack the funds. I know that there are a lot of fake pay pigs and Wanna Be Human ATM's that are not really able to spoil a Goddess. For some of the new women out here, they don't know that a large percentage of these men are mostly talk when it comes to being financially dominated. It's more of a fantasy instead of a lifestyle. Repeatedly telling a woman that you want to pay all of her bills or buy everything off of her amazon wish list doesn't make you a real pay pig. You are just a typical man on a budget. I say this because a lot of women think they can get on social media and get rich quick off of these so-called Pay Pigs and Sugar Daddies. Ladies, don't be so quick to quit your day job if you think there are millions of men horny with a credit card ready to spoil you. A lot are really just bullshitters and time wasters. I've had some that have spend thousands in just a few hours and some that were on a tight budget and wanted to waste time.

Big Girls don't have time for the games

I hate when a guy only wanna get involved with a SSBBW because he has a sexual fetish. Don't pretend you are interested if you only up to no good trying to use a woman. Be an adult and stop with the kiddy behavior. That's why we have web cam sites, BBW porn, online sites for men that have a fetish for fat women. There are also sex workers that cater to these fetishes. We know that some men see us as a sexual fetish and only want to have fun. Some women are open to it which is cool however, I can't stand a man that will lie and play games just to be with a larger woman for his own fetish pleasure. I would rather a man say up front that he doesn't date large women and that he's curious about face sitting or smothering. Adult men need to be honest and act like an adult without all the tricky mind games. I've met men that will claim they only date large women, thinking that will impress me, only to find out that they've never really had an interest in large woman, only an interest in using women as a fetish. Don't trick innocent women and claim you are looking for a long term relationship with marriage in the future when in reality, you are only into large women for your own fantasies. It's okay to have a fetish and fantasies and want to fulfil but be an adult about. Women cannot stand time wasters with a fucked up agenda. Keep it 100.

Cheating in the Next room

I had a phone call late last night with a new caller. I'll call him Rick. Rick is married to a small petite woman that use to be a personal trainer and ran track in high school as well as played volleyball. She's a health food junkie that stays in the gym constantly. Rick's wife usually makes nasty comments about large women and always laugh when she sees a plus size woman in public. Little does she know, Rick is attracted to larger women but has never had the guts to tell his wife. Although his wife could be a cover model for any magazine Rick was never physically attracted to her. He married her because they were close friends and they became roommates and he felt it was the right thing to do. Deep down inside Rick always had this fantasy of his wife gaining weight and becoming a plus size woman. She already has large breast that have been mistaken as implants, but he want some large hips and a round belly to go with those breast.

So in the last month a single woman moved next door with her two female room mates and she's a SSBBW according to Rick. Rick describes her as being attractive and having a sexy voluptuous body that would make any fat admire drool. Rick's wife has already made nasty comments about the new neighbor referring to her as a fattie and overgrown. What she doesn't know or understand is that her husband is attracted to this overgrown fattie and would rather lay with her instead of his overworked out gymaholic wife. So Rick and the new large neighbor have already been flirting and winking at each other. Rick's wife would never expect that her husband is curious about the new plus size neighbor.

Deeper in the conversation Rick tells me that he wants to have an affair with the neighbor. Even though its gonna be risky, he's tired of sleeping with his slim wife. I told him to be careful and be safe. Maybe this will be payback for his wife's nasty comments. Rick is ready to take the risk and screw his neighbor behind his wife's back.